It seems
like we hear a lot about God, the Father.
We talk about His love, His protection and His provision. But we don’t talk much about the Father as a
teacher, or disciplinarian.
What are
fathers like? They love us, they provide
for us, try to keep us safe, protect us, and teach us. Fathers are, ideally, our protector, teacher,
guide, encourager, disciplinarian, boss, wise, caring, and strong, and the ones
that love us unconditionally. They correct us when we are wrong. They train us on how to go through life,
relationships, and daily things like riding a bike, driving a car, getting a
job, balancing a checking account, etc.
Are they
perfect? No. Would we want them to give us everything we
ask for whether it is good for us or not?
Sometimes, maybe, but when we are realistic, the answer is no.
So why do we
think that God never says no, or corrects us?
And do we realize that He sometimes disciplines us when we do things
wrong? He even trains us which can be
hard but necessary. There are some
things that you can only learn by going through them. You can’t learn them from a book or by just
talking about it. Experience is the
great teacher.
And about
God saying no - at times maybe we do not even realize God is saying no. Is this where we sometimes think that God is
not answering our prayers, because the answer is not what we are expecting or
hoping for? Are there times when God is
silent? I think so. Usually there is something that He is
showing me like waiting on Him or I find that I am seeking Him in a new way.
So how do we
respond when God is disciplining us, or says no? We can get offended, we can withdraw, we can
be hurt because our teachings of a loving Father and Provider doesn’t allow for
the response of "no" from God.
OR, we can embrace what God is doing.
We press in to Him and listen to what He is saying in the
situation. We remember that all things
work to the good of those who love Him.
So whether I understand everything, I can trust that it is working
something good in me.
We can get
so wrapped up in this life that we forget that there is an eternity and that
God is working something in us eternal.
This is an amazing thought that there is something so precious that God
wants to do in you and me. It’s not
haphazard. There is something to
it. Remember that God’s desire is to
have relationship with us, for us to work with Him, and to become like
Jesus. This doesn’t happen by just
reading His word, or going to church.
This is a transformative work.
Yes, God’s word is powerful, but we need to embrace it’s work in
us.
Recently,
there was a life and death situation for a friend's 14-month old daughter. Prayer was asked for in this situation. I noticed at times it seemed like people were
quoting whatever scripture came to mind.
At one point, I think one reply mentioned around 11 scriptures. I
am not saying that the person was wrong in their use of scriptures. Only God knows what scriptures were needed at
the time to help the family in the situation.
But what it did was prick my heart and made me think "why".
Are we
afraid that if we don’t quote the right one, God won’t answer? I don’t want to discourage prayer or discount
praying God’s word. I believe praying
God's word is powerful. But I want us to
take a second to listen to the Holy Spirit and what He is saying in the
situation. I know I have had
conversations with God, that I told Him that I know what my flesh wanted to see
happen; how I think it should end up. I
could even quote a scripture that would back it up. But I don’t know the future. Only God knows. He knows what is best for me better than I
do.
How do I
know this? Because I've done this and
I've struggled with knowing that my desire was clouding my view of what God was
trying to tell me.
An example
is Richard’s stroke. God could heal Him
and restore Him completely. But when he
was diagnosed prior to having any strokes, God said that he will be okay. And now, over 8 years later when the stroke
happened, I questioned what God told
me. And God answered me and corrected me
that it would be okay but it would not look like how I was thinking it should
look. Comforting but also disconcerting
at the same time.
As time goes
on, I see more and more what God is doing.
There is a reason that we are going through this season. I will continue to press in for healing and
restoration according to His word, but I also look for what God is teaching us
in this season. And I am seeing God in a
new way, seeing another facet of His love and desire for us. So, although God desires that we would be
healed, He is not healing Richard at this time.
Even though his condition can cause multiple strokes, he has had
multiple TIAs but no more strokes according to recent tests. Since Sep 2017, God is the only reason there
has been no more strokes. It doesn't
mean that this has been easy, but it shows God is intimately involved in the
situation.
I heard a
speaker make a statement that intercession is telling God what God told us to
tell Him. This makes so much sense. Daniel prayed for the return to Israel
because he read scriptures of what God said would happen in 70 years and it was
70 years later. God wants us to work
with Him. In relationships, you don’t
want one person doing all the work and the other just sitting on the sidelines
watching. The person watching also wants
to have some input and action. The other
person also wants to know you want to be with them on this.
The life and
death situation with the young child
also showed something else. We normally
expect an immediate miracle. But
sometimes, I think the miracle is also in the process. This current situation reminded of another
life and death situation of a friend years ago.
The family was told there was no hope and to call in family from out of
town because she was dying. This is when
God taught me to ask Him what He was doing.
I wanted to know if I was to pray for life or for comfort for the
family. God said she would live. I prayed that and told her family what I
believed. I didn't know it until
afterwards that a couple of other friends knew she wasn't going to die because
they knew of promises that God had made to her and that had not been fulfilled
yet.
Against the
odds (I think it was maybe 10% if that) that she would live, she did live. It was a slow recovery. She spent weeks in the hospital and rehab,
but she fully recovered. She has an
amazing testimony of what God did during that time, and God is using her in
mighty ways today.
So now in
the current situation while praying, I felt God telling me to share this with
my friend for her situation. l told her
about the process for my other friend some years ago and that God did do a
miracle. And I believed that God is
doing the same with her daughter. I
believed God was saying she would live and to not be discouraged if it didn't
happen immediately. And the daughter who
was dead but revived, lived. And slowly,
day by day, miracle by miracle, she is recovering and healing.
Against all odds she not only lived but was
restored despite what the doctors told her parents which was to prepare for the funeral, even
after she had been revived. During the
weeks at the hospital, many people saw, sometimes overnight, a miracle in her
recovery. Doctors said she couldn't see;
the next day she was tracking with her eyes.
She could only sit up one day for 10 seconds with assistance and the
next day she sat up for 45 minutes by herself during physical therapy. There were so many things that happened,
encouraging everyone that was praying for her and those that were treating her. After 2 months, every doctor she has seen since
being released has stated she is 100% - despite what the tests showed and what
the doctors originally diagnosed.
In all this
good news, we can ask the question, why did this happen in the first place to
people who love and serve God? Why did
they have to go through this? Do I have
the answer? No. But I understand that God is doing something
in our lives that we don't always understand at the time. But there is something of eternal
significance that He is doing. And this
is where knowing God, the Father, helps.
He is loving and He is also concerned with teaching us and training
us. He protects us but sometimes it is
only in the doing of things or going through something that we really learn and
are transformed. So I can say with full
confidence that "we know that all things work together for the good to
those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose"
Romans 8:28.
If, as
parents, we protect our child from ever falling down; how will they learn to
pick themselves up? If we just talk to
them about driving a car and they read all the books on driving a car, they
will never truly learn to drive a car - only by doing it.
This applies
to things God wants us to learn. We can
read the Bible and listen to all kinds of messages, but if we do not apply
these things or go through things where we need to use this knowledge, we
really do not know how to do it.
There is a
saying I have heard and have repeated in the past about not asking God for
patience because you will be put in situations trying your patience. I don't say that anymore. Because the truth is, only being in
situations that try your patience, will you learn patience. You have to exercise it. So now I find myself asking God for things
with the knowledge that it may hurt and be hard, but I want what He wants for
me. And I know that He will be with me
every step of the way.
And one more
thing, He is cheering me on. He is not
going to give up and say that she will never get it. He is my encourager. Telling me that He knows that I can do it. I can do all things through Christ.